It has been said recently that men cannot be sensual. Consider this,
 the definition
of the word in the dictionary: Sensual - of or arousing 
gratification of the senses and physical, especially sexual, pleasure.
   So gratification of their own senses or being able to arouse the
 senses of another is not possible for men? Is the light so dark 
that it casts the shadow of only one lover? Let me unequivocally
 debunk the idea that men have no sensuality. We feel, our skin has the
 same touch receptors as women. I will hazard to guess  women believe
 their skin is more sensitive than a mans. But I can assure you that
 the sense of touch is every bit as active (and reactive) for a man. Go
 ahead, touch my neck or my thigh and see where it takes us.
   To say that many men are not able to express themselves may be more 
appropriate. But that is not sensuality, it is sensitivity. And again
 I turn to a dictionary that lays the difference out quite clearly:
 Sensitivity - the strength or emotional reaction to people. OK, now
 we're getting somewhere. So men aren't sensitive to their sensuality? 
That makes no sense either. Are you thoroughly confused at this point?
 Good, and this is important. Don't try to make more of this than it
 is. Stop thinking of men as a group and begin to recognize that among
 us as individuals exists chivalry, compassion and commitment. As well
 as all of the feelings of passion and affection possessed by many if 
not most women (you'll notice I won't make a blanket over
generalization when it comes to women)
   There is no feeling I can remember that can match what goes on deep 
inside as I explore the recesses of a woman's neck. The senses are 
quickened with the smell of her hair, the warmth of her skin and the 
taste of her lips. And I have not ventured that far yet. To further explore 
would bring even more heightened response (hopefully from each).  If I
 am not experiencing the sensuality of this lady and she me, then I
 should give up this quest.
I am a sensual massage therapist and I can say that men can indeed be sensual and enjoy a sensual touch. They are also able to give sensuality to a woman or man.. Some men are more sensual than others, so women are not all the same as well. The only point is men and women often don`t don`t know enough about the sexuality of the other sex. So men are often faster sexual aroused and are more impatient.
But in general it is wonderful to pamper your partner in a sensual way or giving a sensual massage to each other.
Rosenfee2 wrote: it is wonderful to pamper your partner in a sensual way.


You are welcome to pamper me any time, Rose - simply give me a plate of steak and chips and I'm all yours...
You are welcome to pamper me any time, Rose - simply give me a plate of steak and chips and I'm all yours...[/quote]

:lol: Who knows where life may lead us.