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[shyscottie]

I join ed this club because of the people who are witnin it no matter there race there sex there location there position in life and there honesty towards everything and everyone around them and maybe in particular cause they ...eventually...even understood my dry sense of humour. However there is absolutely no way any person any where in the world in any club job position in life etc where one can expect 100% of all parties around them to agree with them....it just dont happen. However there is a big difference when it comes down to the fact that there are always certain parties certain individuels who are never happy unless they are causing mayhem within the clubs and communities they are members off whether they admit to it or not. They exist everywhere..every club association community has them and unfortunately that includes our dearly loved 50 plus.

Recently there was a fracas within the club between me and a female member and no doubt most regular chat members will already know of this and the person concerned but i am not going to be childish and play any tit for tat in regards to names and what happened. Everyone or most people know who is involved and also know the reasons around what happened. Off course without me around she may invent any tales she wants to but there were enough witnnesses around that evening who i am sure saw the truth of what did happen.

So why am i leaving if i feel justified in my own actions. Well i do not....I am innocent of having any part to do with this fracas starting as it can clearly be seen from the logs that the other member is totally guilty in starting it off on that evening... However what i am guilty of is disappointing myself by allowing that member to get at me and as a professional person i did not handle the situation professionally....and even though my comments were the truth...i should have and could have handled the situation better.

That therefore is the reason i am leaving and would apologise to anyone i may have upset that evening....apart from an obvious member...and hope most people i have met as new friends understand this.

You have a good club here Mr G and Cliath but like wherelse these disturbing members do exist and have to be stamped out before they go on to destroy things. It is also only fair though to say to other members that action can only be taken when such happenings are reported to the community members in charge.

Finaly i have made some real genuine friends here and i will miss you all.

Take Care xx

Colin ...alias Shyscottie...

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[samac7]

So sorry to see you leave Colin, your wonderful outrageous sense of humour will be sorely missed. 
I, like many others enjoyed chatting with you very much.  It is unfortunate that some come into the room just to see how much havoc they can wreak, and yes it does happen.  Your friends will miss you.

Sam  xxx  

[starkitkat]

Well what can I say, I know you have a sense of humor that a lot of people can't see, it take a speical person to see that humor you have with share among us chatters. Some do have a weird way of feeling and take it to personal, not taking it in as a joke or in your dry humor way. Some don't have the skills to work with those kind of communication and don't know how to handle such jokes/humors that you share with a lot of us chatters.

When I first met you in chat, it took me awhile to get use to your sense of humor and once I gotten use to you, I just join in your fun, even tease you a lot, so you will be sorely miss and you won't be there for us to continue to have fun in chat. You do start the fun in chat and it just take awhile to get into the flow of chat.

Also chatters can misjudge you for what and whom you are, can turn the table around because they feel embarass or don't understand the joke/humor in chat.

There has been mock weddings in chat, and we had fun with that, we all joke about it as that is chat. A fun what to enjoy our day/evening/night in chat, a good stress relieving device and it is free too.

So what are we going to do without you and your goats stories?

You will be sadly miss by many as they are use to you and your ways in chat!!

[Graham1]

I join ed this club because of the people who are witnin it no matter there race there sex there location there position in life and there honesty towards everything and everyone around them and maybe in particular cause they ...eventually...even understood my dry sense of humour. However there is absolutely no way any person any where in the world in any club job position in life etc where one can expect 100% of all parties around them to agree with them....it just dont happen. However there is a big difference when it comes down to the fact that there are always certain parties certain individuels who are never happy unless they are causing mayhem within the clubs and communities they are members off whether they admit to it or not. They exist everywhere..every club association community has them and unfortunately that includes our dearly loved 50 plus.

Recently there was a fracas within the club between me and a female member and no doubt most regular chat members will already know of this and the person concerned but i am not going to be childish and play any tit for tat in regards to names and what happened. Everyone or most people know who is involved and also know the reasons around what happened. Off course without me around she may invent any tales she wants to but there were enough witnnesses around that evening who i am sure saw the truth of what did happen.

So why am i leaving if i feel justified in my own actions. Well i do not....I am innocent of having any part to do with this fracas starting as it can clearly be seen from the logs that the other member is totally guilty in starting it off on that evening... However what i am guilty of is disappointing myself by allowing that member to get at me and as a professional person i did not handle the situation professionally....and even though my comments were the truth...i should have and could have handled the situation better.

That therefore is the reason i am leaving and would apologise to anyone i may have upset that evening....apart from an obvious member...and hope most people i have met as new friends understand this.

You have a good club here Mr G and Cliath but like wherelse these disturbing members do exist and have to be stamped out before they go on to destroy things. It is also only fair though to say to other members that action can only be taken when such happenings are reported to the community members in charge.

Finaly i have made some real genuine friends here and i will miss you all.

Take Care xx

Colin ...alias Shyscottie...

ps Cliath have left Oxford hotel details on your own forum

I will respond to this privately in a message Colin

[derdra]

sad to say that on the majority of forums personalities clash and things can get out of hand and you will find forum trolls are everywhere...they lead sad lives because all they can do is disrupt peoples lives with their vicious tongue ...but thats no reason to leave especially if you have made good friends here...surely good friends are worth staying for ....
im a new member so am still finding my way around anyone got a map?

[morton1]

met you a few times in chat,an I think you were a very nice person an fun to chat with.I do not know what as gone on in chat to make you leave this site. but I know this you never struck me as the type of person who would not stand your ground,you are very well liked an would be missed by your friends, so why turn your back on so many when its easier to turn your back on one?.please rethink .x

[mellowman27]

Colin abbott needed costello wayne needed shuster laurel needed hardy stay here mellow needs shy LoL

[morton1]

Colin abbott needed costello wayne needed shuster laurel needed hardy stay here mellow needs shy LoL

thats the best one yet, trust you to think that one up mellow