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[Graham1]

 To all who  responded to my comments,

Thanks for taking your time, it was kind of you. I may try another chat room, my philosophy being "always take/give/ another chance" ..but language shouldn't be used as a way to put people out, you cannot imagine how enriching it is, as a foreigner, to live in a country and be able to talk/write/read/understand the language of the host country! Languages enriches you, not only your brain becomes more flexible but your mind opens up!

Take care...! Voyageuse
 

I agree that language should not be a reason to push people out and I would not want you to feel that anyone is trying to push you out. Politeness and courtesy are priorities in the chat room and I hope it will continue to be so. There will always be differences of opinion and we cannot please all of the people all of the time. I enjoyed talking to you about travel experiences and hope you will stay on as a member.

[jcberg]

DEAR STARKITKAT
I DO ENTIRELY AGREE WITH YOU.LANGUAGE IS NOT EVERYTHING EXISTING TO OPEN OUR MIND IN THIS WORLD . A LOT OF OTHER WAYS EXIST.NOBODY ESPICIALLY MYSELF EVER SAID THAT YOU ARE NARROW MINDED.I ONLY BEEN SHOCKEDBY THE WAY SOME PEOPLE DID REACT TO SOMETHING THAT FOR ME WAS SIMPLY NATUIRAL.A CHAT ROOM LIKE THE ONE ON THIS SITE IS A GOOD WAY TO OPEN OUR MIND TO SOMETHING ELSE THAN WHAT WE KNOW .MANY PEOPLE HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY THAT WE WILL LEARN FROM THEM AND THAT WE DO NOT ALREADY KNOW.BUT PLEASE TRY TO KEEP IT AT A DECENT LEVEL OF RELASIONSHIP.I AM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID AND I NEVER WILL UNDERSTAND THE TRIP OF VIRTUAL SEX.ON THAT SPECIFIC POINT I ADMIT BEEING NARROW MINDED.

jcberg

[starkitkat]

DEAR STARKITKAT
I DO ENTIRELY AGREE WITH YOU.LANGUAGE IS NOT EVERYTHING EXISTING TO OPEN OUR MIND IN THIS WORLD . A LOT OF OTHER WAYS EXIST.NOBODY ESPICIALLY MYSELF EVER SAID THAT YOU ARE NARROW MINDED.I ONLY BEEN SHOCKEDBY THE WAY SOME PEOPLE DID REACT TO SOMETHING THAT FOR ME WAS SIMPLY NATUIRAL.A CHAT ROOM LIKE THE ONE ON THIS SITE IS A GOOD WAY TO OPEN OUR MIND TO SOMETHING ELSE THAN WHAT WE KNOW .MANY PEOPLE HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY THAT WE WILL LEARN FROM THEM AND THAT WE DO NOT ALREADY KNOW.BUT PLEASE TRY TO KEEP IT AT A DECENT LEVEL OF RELASIONSHIP.I AM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID AND I NEVER WILL UNDERSTAND THE TRIP OF VIRTUAL SEX.ON THAT SPECIFIC POINT I ADMIT BEEING NARROW MINDED.

jcberg

I can't agree with you more on virtual sex, I know we are in a virtual world, but sex? that is something private to me and not to share on line. So I hope you will come back into chat and exprience more pleasure than what you already had. I know we can joke around mildly but to go to far is abit to far. So if you ...like Graham1 said, do a copy and paste of this chat where you feel uncomfortable with or is out of context like virtual sex then send it to them and they will deal with it accordingly, we all should feel comfortable in this site, so far I have like this site for everything but do encounter some strange things that the site can handle to fix it (does this make sense?).

[jcberg]

MS STARKITKAT

YOUR ANSWERS WERE GREATLY APPRECIATED.YOU DID REALLY CONCEIVE WHAT I WANTED TO EXPRESS AND WHAT WERE MY FEELINGS AT THE TIME I WROTE THAT NOTE IN THE FORUM.

IT GOES WITHOUT SAYING THAT I DID OVER REACT ABOUT THAT LANGUAGE MATTER.IT JUST PUTS ME IN LINE WITH ALL THESE PEOPLE WHO WENT AND ARE STILL GOING INTO WARS FOR LANGUAGE AND RELIGION.I HAVEN T BEEN RESPECTED FOR WHO I AM BUT ON MY PART I DID NOT RESPECT THE OTHERS ONES EITHER.

FOR SOME VIRTUAL THINGS I WAS REFERRING TO I BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A TIME AND A PLACE FOR THEM

BE SURE THAT I AM GRATEFUL TO YOU FOR TOOKEN THE TIME TO ANSWER TO MY COMMENTS.WILL ALWAYS BE A PLEASURE TO TALK TO YOU OR TO OTHERS INTERESTIG LADIES ON THAT SITE BUT AS FAR AS THE CHAT ROOM IS CONCERNED I WILL SIMPLY WALK AWAY.

HAVE A GREAT NIGHT.

jcberg.

[Theresamarie]

 To all who  responded to my comments,

Thanks for taking your time, it was kind of you. I may try another chat room, my philosophy being "always take/give/ another chance" ..but language shouldn't be used as a way to put people out, you cannot imagine how enriching it is, as a foreigner, to live in a country and be able to talk/write/read/understand the language of the host country! Languages enriches you, not only your brain becomes more flexible but your mind opens up!

Take care...! Voyageuse
 

Hi Voyaageuse:

I am so sorry that you were treated as you were. I do not speak French but have always admired anyone who can. I feel it to be a benefit to be able to speak more than one language. How fortunate for you. I do envy people speaking more than one language. French is becoming more and more important in the work field. So many doors open up if only you can speak french. I have learned this being a nurse for the past 11 years. Had I been in the chat room I would have enjoyed chatting with you. Prehaps you could have helped me learn a small amount of French.

Take care and one day hope to chat with you.
Theresamarie