newsong wrote:Why not? It is part of our make up in more ways than one. It really depends on how we define sexy. Maybe we define it differently as we age in the sense that we know that we cannot wear the same style of clothes as we did at 25, since they are not likely to fit. Like other aspects of aging, sexiness is in our demeanour, warmth, carriage, fitness level, confidence, health, outlook etc. It is part of the whole package. Many people who are not outwardly sexy by definition can warm our hearts and draw us toward them. There is no age limit on it. People who fall in love later in life as my father in law did at 76 with a woman who was 68 told me that it was not different than when he was younger as far as the emotions went. Sexuality is enmeshed in emotions and the mind as much, if not more so than outward appearances. Also, the sex drive naturally diminishes for most people as we age, but the need for touch, human contact and expression of love - does not. Just an opinion of course, but sort of how I see it. It is wonderful and inspirational to see older people who look fantastic, and it seems more and more people nowadays manage to achieve that.
Exactly. We all have our definitions of what we think is sexy. I love tatoos and find them very sexy if they are well done. To some people this is terrible... to each his own. It's not the clothes that make us but what we have in our hearts and soul. It's just that I feel that some people who have very closed minds, will not take the time to find out what we are really about before judging us by our looks. I have always liked excentric clothes since I was a teen. The only thing that has changed is that I've adapted them with my age. Sexiness comes from within. But I still prefer to look a certain way, even if the neighbor may not like my look. I have always tryed to live and let live. Even if someone is very different from me, give them a chance to prove themselves. Who knows you may find a very good and special friend...................
